The 12 year rite of passage

This is the second of three rites of passage that we do in our family.  This rite of passage focuses on the child's relationship with other people.  In a lot of ways this is the rite of passage that I have the fewest ideas about.  I think that we will probably do some kind of family tree thing (I just thought that up while I am typing).  We also had some soapstone carvings made in Kenya, East Africa to give to our kids representing that we are like livingstones (1 Peter).  We will also give them some kind of sentimental thing.  Maybe you have some ideas for us.  Share with me. . .