We went to a small Midwestern Christian college, and there was a tradition there to have pick-a-dates. What is a pick-a-date? A pick-a-date is where your roommate calls and asks someone to go on a group date with you and the people in your dorm. The great thing, I believe, about pick-a-dates is that Christian college kids can hang out together in a group and learn about others through conversation. There is a lot to be said for group interaction in the dating process. I did not go on a record number of pick-a-dates, but I went on a few, and so I will list my top ten list. If you are living in a college dorm trying to plan an event for your dorm, feel free to use any of these in your context. Some of them were okay, others were life-changing.
10. My first pick a date was to my hometown bowling alley. I list is #10 not because it is the worst, but because it is the first. We had a pick of a wreck, and had to change a tire. Bowling seems to be a popular group dating activity.
9. Going to someone's house and hanging out. This is pretty common. I just remember the only person who had never seen "Friends," the tv show.
8. The square dance. This was not really a pick a date, but a tradition at our college. You square danced with people you just met. I know one guy who met his future wife this way.
7. Insert your idea here: I did not go on ten pick a dates, so I have to fill space. Some of the rest may be made up. You pick which ones were made up.
6. Go to NAIA nationals pick a date. This was not really a date at all, but I got to see my friend run a !:46 800.
5. Walk the loop pick a date. We all walked the loop around campus and then had hot chocolate in the breezeway.
4. Nutcracker pick a date. We got all dressed up and went to Indianapolis to see the Nutcracker. It was fun. I later married my date.
3. Children's museum pick a date. I still like that place and take my kids there.
2. The T-shirt pick a date. You meet your date in the library, give her a T-shirt that says, "I went on a Sammy II pick-a-date and all I got was this lousy T-shirt.
1. Jar-prom. Think opposite of prom. The main event was an obstacle course in which you heaved yourself and your date on top of a shed, shot a ball in a basket, did the wheelbarrow, etc. The best pick a date ever.
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